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What Constitutes A Leader

July 24th, 2009 · No Comments

There is often a lot of ambiguity about what constitutes a leader compared with a manager. Many people think that leaders and managers are one and the same. In many instances this is far from reality, as will be seen.

Wikipedia definition: “Leadership has been described as the process of social influence in which one person can enlist the aid and support of others in the accomplishment of a common task.”

Wikipedia definition: “Management in all business and human organization activity is simply the act of getting people together to accomplish desired goals and objectives. Management comprises planning, organizing, staffing, leading or directing, and controlling an organization (a group of one or more people or entities) or effort for the purpose of accomplishing a goal.”

Note that management comprises “leading OR directing.” Not all managers are leaders as they tend to be more directors than leaders. Then there are others who can be both leaders or directors, as circumstances dictate.

A leader is usually a self-motivated implementer with drive who is at the forefront of action. He or she is a person who usually exhibits vision or foresight and is prepared to take the initiative to get things done rather than wait to be told what to do. Usually a leader is inspirational and has a following of people [followers] who have faith in the leader and his or her judgment.

Leaders are often the first amongst equals but they may also be a member of management who guides and encourages subordinates by setting an example that the subordinates are willing to follow. Some may try to co-erce employees to do things that they [managers] are not prepared to do themselves. Other managers [authoritarian] exert power because of their position within an organization but a leader, or leader/manager operates by using influence as their tool of trade.

The catch cry of many leaders is, “I would rather seek forgiveness than seek approval.” This is because they act on their own convictions and feel that they may be seen as weak should they go, cap-in-hand, to seek approval. Besides, their supervisor/manager may reject their plans that they are confident will succeed, and in some cases, a selfish manager may even take the credit for the ideas etc. that subordinates may generate.

A wise manager [democratic] will usually empower employees to take certain actions, without seeking approval, as they know that valuable time can be wasted on the seeking and giving of approval for minor things.

Leaders are often managers-in-the-making as their actions make them stand out from the crowd and promotions and salary increases are often close at hand. On the other hand some managers have very good skills such as planning, or obtaining finance, but do not really have the good people skills that leaders have. Often the scope for advancement for such managers may be very limited as, according to the “Peter principle,” they may have reached their level of incompetence.

A good leader not only sets an example but will generally instill trust and encourage others to follow that example. When this happens, a team is forged, formally or informally, and the leader then becomes a team leader. Effective leaders usually look after the welfare of their followers and establish a set of beliefs, common goals, and a feeling of security as comrades. They are generally very good at human relations.

Leadership involves getting followers to work as a co-ordinated team, or group of individuals, rather than pulling against each other. The acronym, “TEAM” standing for “Together Everyone Achieves More” is often used as motivation to this end.

Whilst leaders and managers may have similar or common objectives, it is often the manner in which they seek to achieve those objectives that set them apart. In 1989 Warren Bennis drew twelve distinctions between leaders and managers as set out below:-

* Managers administer; leaders innovate.
* Managers ask how and when; leaders ask what and why.
* Managers focus on systems; leaders focus on people.
* Managers do things right; leaders do the right things.
* Managers maintain; leaders develop.
* Managers rely on control; leaders inspire trust.
* Managers have short-term perspective; leaders have long-term perspective.
* Managers accept the status-quo; leaders challenge the status-quo.
* Managers have an eye on the bottom line; leaders have an eye on the horizon.
* Managers imitate; leaders originate.
* Managers emulate the classic good soldier; leaders are their own person.
* Managers copy; leaders show originality.

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Welcome To Self Help Guidance

July 7th, 2008 · No Comments

Welcome to Self Help Guidance!

Thank you for taking the time to visit. You are obviously the type of person that I hoped to attract. That is a person who is seeking to improve their life in one way or another.

There are many people who could do with help but do not know it or are too proud or ignorant to take appropriate action. Other people are obviously in need of assistance or guidance to enable them to overcome adverse situations but they are unwilling to accept help for some reason or other. These people are probably those referred to in the saying, “Some people are unfortunate in that they are blind and cannot see. But there are none so blind as those that will not see.”

You can easily find these people in all walks of life. They are the ones who continually blame anything and everything rather than take ownership of where the problem really exists. Whenever a person extends the hand of friendship and offers them some constructive guidance they reject it out of hand. They expect the world to change around them rather than initiate change themselves. You obviously do not fall into this category!

I love to help people who have an open mind and who are prepared to make informed decisions rather than hasty decisions based on tradition or superstition etc.

To this end I started a website and purchased a number of articles to use there. These articles dealt with a number of specifics such as Starting a Business, dealing with Blood Pressure Issues, Financial Information, Leadership, Relaxation, and Self Esteem. Some of the information within these articles was quite good and other information seemed to be deficient in several ways. So, being a scrupulous person, I decided to update this information and write most of my own posts in future to ensure that accurate information and high standards are maintained.

I found that the most important aspect of self help was in the area of self improvement or self development. When this can be improved the other areas of our lives seem to improve, just as flotsam and boats in the harbor tend to rise when the tide comes in.

I shall keep this post short on this occasion. However, I promise some interesting discussion in the future. Much will be based on my own experiences and learnings.

However, I eagerly seek the input of people such as yourself to make comments, ask questions, and share your experiences and knowledge.

Should you wish to be informed of any new posts, you may choose to register above in the left hand corner.

Hopefully this will be the start of a new venture for all of us.

Regards,

John Stephens

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